A Journey with Three Women: A Glimpse into Their Lives

Tina's father had passed away many years ago. She had grown up in her uncle's house, who had educated and married her. Tina's husband was a successful businessman but spent more time with his elder brother's son, fulfilling all his wishes. Mr. Patel didn't love his wife, Tina, and they frequently quarreled. Tina was unhappy with her marriage, but she had no other option. She was afraid of getting a divorce because of societal judgment – "A mother of three children getting divorced?" Mr. Patel had bought a new car recently, but his nephew used it more often. Tina had three sons and one nephew. There was much more to the story of Mr. Patel and his wife, Tina.

Meena's Story: Silent Resilience

Tina's father had arranged Meena's marriage. He must have found a good home for his daughter, Meena, but currently, Tina's husband earned well. Meena had two sons, and they were also on this trip. Meena spoke very little, but she had a beautiful smile. Her husband had raised his hand on her several times, but Meena, being an Indian woman, never complained. She was content with her family and husband.

Fiba's Story: A Simple Life

Fiba's story was even shorter. Her husband was a driver. They had been married since 1980 and were very happy with their married life. Fiba was visiting Mumbai for the first time. She was a bit unhappy with this train journey and decided not to travel by train again. Oh, and one more thing: this train was six hours late, and during those six hours, they had boarded another train and then had to get off the moving train.

Their Stories Unfolded Before Me

You have read about Tina, Meena, and their aunt Fiba. 

Now, read this:

I never spoke to them after I changed my seat. I didn't ask them a single question. I didn't inquire about their families or husbands. I tried to sleep. They just talked so much, and I learned all about them. When I got off the train in Mumbai, I had one thought: "These women talk a lot!"

A Headache and a Reflection

Does your head hurt after reading this?

Mine did too, after this journey.

A Glimpse into Their Lives

This story is not about judging or criticizing these women. It's about the fragments of their lives that I overheard, the stories they shared, and the insights they offered into their experiences. It's a reminder that behind every face, there's a story waiting to be told.

A Journey of Empathy and Understanding

While I may not fully understand their circumstances or the complexities of their lives, I can empathize with their struggles and appreciate their resilience. Their stories serve as a window into the lives of ordinary women, their joys, sorrows, and the quiet strength they possess.

A Lesson in Self-Awareness

This journey also made me reflect on my own tendencies and biases. It's easy to form quick judgments based on limited information, but it's crucial to approach others with an open mind and a willingness to listen.

A Reminder of Shared Humanity

Despite our differences and the diverse paths we take, we are all connected by a shared humanity. We all experience love, loss, joy, and pain. We all have stories to tell, and we all deserve to be heard.

A Call for Compassion and Respect

Let us approach others with compassion and respect, recognizing the uniqueness of each individual and the richness of their life experiences. Let us listen with empathy, seeking to understand rather than judge. Let us value the stories that unfold before us, even those that may seem ordinary or mundane. For it is in these everyday encounters that we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.